- "It's Just Too Difficult...."
- By: Terri Nii
- The UMJ Volume 2.7
Well, you guys, we got it again.
It had been such a long time since I had personally heard
The Line that I had begun to doubt whether people were still
using it. After all, this is Tokyo, or Fujisawa - whatever, and
we're supposed to have graduated from the "Kokusaika"
of the 1980s, aren't we? And if internationalization in Japan
means making the Japanese culture and language understood as
well as understanding others around the world, shouldn't this
kind of roadblock already have been cleared?
I don't know about you, but the "Japanese heart"
expression, in whatever language, is really hard for me to endure.
That as foreigners, non-Japanese, aliens, gaijin, imports (choose
one), we cannot understand the quintessent spirit or unique mind,
the 'Japanese-ness' of the inhabitants of this nation.
The other day I went to City Hall to find out which department
provides support to the homeless in Fujisawa and how an individual
might be able to help out. Perhaps 10 homeless people live in
and around the station, and as it is getting colder, I wondered
if such provisions as food or blankets might be provided. Or
perhaps referrals to low-cost housing might be given so that
at least during the winter months people could access shelter.
Finally finding the proper department, I spoke with two gentlemen
about the situation. Mr. A was definitely a hard-liner. According
to him, Japanese homeless people are different from They want
to be free, unconfined, able to go where they want and do as
they wish anytime. They don't want to conform to normal life.
They are not to be supported for they don't want help.
He went on to say that most homeless people are alcoholics,
unable to give up the bottle when they are provided with the
clean bed supplied by the welfare center. They don't want to
turn out the lights at curfew and even if led there by well-meaning
officials, by morning almost all of them have quit the facilities.
As I haven't yet had a chance to take a look at the proffered
lodgings, I can't comment, but that people are dissatisfied suggests
that a problem with the facilities is a possibility requiring
investigation.
It was at this point that the "Japanese heart" bit
came into play. Mr. A explained that the Japanese approach was
not to help out these people because that just encouraged their
homeless behavior. They deliberately try to confound welfare
officials, and the Fujisawa Department was not going to fall
for any deception.
He "knows" because he has been to Yokohama where
officials made the mistake of trying to provide assistance and
where the problem is worse.
He dismissed my inquiries and objections by telling me that
it was hard for me to understand that line of reasoning because
I am not Japanese. This approach he described is part of the
"Japanese heart" -- the only two English words he used.
Although his depiction of the "Japanese heart" sounded
more like "heartlessness" to me, I resisted an etymological
treatise on the suffix "-less" as used in "homeless"
and "heartless."
This is from a career Fukushi Welfare Department official.
It is objectively intriguing to wonder whether during his (estimated)
30+ years in the department he has mellowed or whether he drew
more toward his current position. But homelessness, at an individual
level, is not objective.
Been to San Francisco? Or New York? How about London? Or Tokyo?
Or Osaka?
Early on, when I got the "What do you think of Japan?"
and similar questions, which I thought of as the 'Top Ten', I
was eager for the kind instruction and advice about Japanese
etiquette, culture, and way of life.
But when the declaration, "It's hard for foreigners to
understand the Japanese heart," is delivered point blank,
whether to someone new to Japan or a long-term resident, the
listener faces a dilemma. To argue is surely not Japanese, but
it is untrue and unfair to agree. In an instant one is challenged
with many temptations from which good sense and a quick recollection
of the objective yanks one back to reality.
Yes, Japanese people are special, but no more special that
peoples of other cultures and geographic locations.
It's ironic that it was when my commitment to my town and
fellow citizens caused me to try to participate that I got the
"Japanese heart" nonsense.
While ignoring such a pronouncement is often the most effective
response, in some cases serious enlightenment seems necessary.
I wonder what other non-Japanese say to such declarations, and
what kind of answer or explanation has been successful. Why not
take a few minutes to let others know your thoughts on this?
The UMJ will feature contributions on this topic in the November
newsletter. Also, as I intend to try to find a solution to my
friend Suzuki san's lack of winter shelter, I might need some
inspiration. Your suggestions would certainly be appreciated.
As I was walking away, I heard a different voice in the background,
"That was pretty fluent Japanese..."
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